Time By Time

“Life is all about timing... the unreachable becomes reachable, the unavailable become available, the unattainable... attainable. Have the patience, wait it out. It's all about timing.”
Stacey Charter

Stacey Charter was right. Life is all about timing. Good things or even bad things which come for us are just only about times. Some people said that life is a process of learning, so its means process of learning is all about timing too. Every seconds, every minutes and every hours we're dealing are full of learning that we can take from all experiences and moments of ourlives.



I realized that time was very important for us. In almost 20 years of my life, I already know for sure whether hard time or soft time which happened to me, I can get a learning from it and so do every people in this world. After some times, I got a conclusion if life is actually process of time by time learning.
Time by time, bad things happen to us.
Time by time, good things happen to us.
Time by time, learnings come to us.
And here they are, all of learnings which I got from my life:

1. Time by time, you will understand that ourlives are never flat. One time you can flying high, in the other time you can harshly falling.

2. Time by time, you will understand that the only one who can control and choose your destiny is yourself. Although you have God, family and friend, no one can help, change, or make your destiny. No one except you. Your destiny is in your own hand.

3. Time by time, you will understand that the only person you can trust in this world is yourself. Believe yourself even when no one else believes in you.

4. Time by time, you will understand if a trust is a high achievement from other people which given to you. So never think to broke the trust because trusting others is highly risking your life. Once you ruined it, It will be hard to build again even you have begging on him/her.

5.Time by time, you will understand that every people were born to be special. Never underestimate what 's inside you that make you special.

6.Time by time, you will understand if telling lies or talking manipulative is a basic skill of human being.

7. Time by time, you will understand that most people are acting like cannibals for the others. They hurt, attack, and deceive each others. Strong ones eat the weak ones, majority eats the minority, etc.

8. Time by time, you will understand if there are two kinds of people in this world. The good ones and the bad ones.

9. Time by time, you will understand that you can't decide how long people/things will be walking beside you. They just come and go.

10. Time by time, you will understand that most people are seeing others for what mistake did he/she make, what rule you have broke, and what you have done to them. They will not concerning the reason why you made mistake or why you broke up the rule.

11. Time by time, you will understand that most people are seeing you and labelling you as a weirdo if you are not acting like them, doing what they do, and having what they have. Pass it on! Never think what they said to you. Do everything that you wanna do. You is You.

12. Time by time, you will understand if a friendship is a relationship among people who know how precious the other people they are dealing with in what they called it as a friendship. If they know how precious they are, they will not hurt and making sad each others, they will share the burden, and they will taking care each others.

13. Time by time, you will understand if love is a complicated thing and will not walking easy on you. To be being in relationship with someone else is not only about your heart and your desire. You must think the benefit and loss also. Never sacrificing other people in your relationship and especially never sacrificing yourself into bad relationship. Love is about you with the right people, right time, and right place.

14. Time by time, you will understand if your love is more than and will not walking like Korean Dramas and Epic Love Cartoons. Never stay with someone who treat you bad in your relationship and there will be no perfect prince and princess in your love story. Well yeah, nobody is perfect and there will not always be an happily ever after in your love story. Sometimes you will happily ever after in case you have let someone you loved go and find the right ones.

15. Time by time, you will understand that being alone is sometimes better than surrounding with people who didn't treat you right and not so you.

16. Time by time, you will understand if It's better for being hated for what you are than being loved for what you are not.

17. Time by time, you will understand if although you have move to other towns, countries, or destinations. You'll finally realize that your hometown is better than them. Love of your family, gossiping with your neighbours, and laughing with your friends...ah, you only find them in your hometown.


Those are from me for now. I will be update it if I've find my new lesson of time by time learning in my life. So please if you have read this never think what other people said about you, never think that you're useless, never think that you will crying for bad people did to you, and never crying in your room if your love story and friendship didn't walking right.
Heheh. Remember, It's only about You, Your Life, and Your Time.
So keep on smiling in everything which happen in your life and believe that God always have purpose on it.


“Yesterday is a canceled check; tomorrow is a promissory note; today is the only cash you have - so spend it wisely”
Kay Lyons

Salam Kupu-Kupu. ^^

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